by Natalie
My mom and I were on the phone the other day talking about the upcoming wedding of a dear friend of mine. My mom asked what my friend's silver pattern was, and after we got off the phone, it occurred to me that she didn't ask "if" my friend had a silver pattern; she asked what it was. I don't know if this is a regional thing or not; when my husband and I got married, we registered for both fine china and silver. I'm not sure that I thought about it one way or another, but my mother and grandmother both went with me to register and I, pretty coincidentally, chose the same silver pattern that they both have... Kirk Stiff Repousse, for those of you interested in details. I have to say, for someone who doesn't do a lot of entertaining or do anything fancy at all, really, I ADORE my silver. It's something that I hope to have for years and pass down to my daughters.

(Confession: I sometimes eat my morning cereal with a silver spoon. What is silver for if not to be used, I ask you?)
Now, on the other hand, my china, though I love it, rarely gets used. We just don't live in a time where we entertain formally... um, well, ever. I've used my china at Christmas (twice) and at Thanksgiving (once), and I think maybe I used it once when we put the kids to bed early and thought it would be fun to have a nice dinner. (I can't remember exactly when that WAS, so it was obviously a rare occurrence.) For reference, my china looks like this:

It's Verdures by Raynaud, and it's much greener than it appears in this pictures; I keep it stacked in a buffet and it rarely gets eaten off of. We've used the dinner plates, and we've occasionally used the salad plates to serve dessert, but there are teacups we've never used at all, and I'm not even sure what the smallest plates are for (bread? Who knows?).
We bypassed registering for crystal entirely because we're not really crystal people, but had I not registered for flatware or china, I have a few great-aunts who would have been horrified. (My mother's family are Southern People, ya'll.)
So my question is this: if you're married, did you register for china, crystal or flatware? If you did, are you glad you did? And if not, do you wish you had?
{photos via replacements.com}